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Post by Sharon on Aug 29, 2017 8:24:18 GMT -5
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Post by schweik222 on Oct 19, 2017 8:30:02 GMT -5
yes divorce is a bad thing. but what can we do about it? why does one must to keep his or her relationships going if the light of candle has died? if you don't love each other you should not try to save your marriage in my opinion. the best way is to be in constant search of an ideal partner. for instance one may use some dating sites like this single ladies community. i'm sorry in advance if i look like a mad man. but loneliness is the worst thing ever. |
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Post by Sharon on Oct 19, 2017 11:30:30 GMT -5
yes divorce is a bad thing. but what can we do about it? why does one must to keep his or her relationships going if the light of candle has died? if you don't love each other you should not try to save your marriage in my opinion. the best way is to be in constant search of an ideal partner. for instance one may use some dating sites like this single ladies community. i'm sorry in advance if i look like a mad man. but loneliness is the worst thing ever. I agree that loneliness is horrible, but this is where God fills in for us. My spouse is not here for my enjoyment until I am done with them. They are here for me to be loving to, to display Christ's relationship with the church. That means if I am not in love anymore, I need to work on it. We need to go to counseling, a marriage seminar, or spend time together with the Lord to work on this. Being in constant search of an ideal partner is a waste of time frankly because we are all human and we all fail. There is no such thing as ideal when it comes to flesh. An ideal partner in marriage is God. He is the only one who ever does it all right and when we bind ourselves to Him and our spouse in marriage, we are giving ourselves to Him and asking him to bless this relationship and it is my responsibility to God by the covenant I have made to do everything in my power to save it, if it can be saved. |
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Post by Adrienne on Oct 19, 2017 17:09:18 GMT -5
Agreed. If we think the marriage isn't worth working for every time the "light of the candle" dies, then no marriage will ever last. As Sharon said, the goal is that GOD be the light of the candle, and His light can never be put out.
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