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Post by tkk2 on Jun 12, 2017 20:40:15 GMT -5
The whole family went to Mt.Princeton for a long weekend to celebrate my son-in-law (Aaron's 30th bday) and my 51st. There was an incident at the dinner-table were my mom felt that she needed to correct my youngest granddaughter. But Aaron took offense to it...and a huge family fight followed....which has happened rarely. Aaron and his family ended up leaving a day early the following morning...Which really set my mom off, because she paid for everything. I'm the peacemaker so I got to spend the day after hiking with my parents and finally got my mom smiling again. Then today, she just called me and was nasty about it all over again. I'm at a loss...very sad. I don't know what to say to her...she keeps cutting me off and saying the conversation is over. I rattled off scripture but her heart seems so cold. She even started in on Dana and just can't understand why I'm throwing my life away waiting for him. Some history....my mom had brain tumor surgery over 30 yrs ago....she wasn't supposed to live. we held a prayer service for her in the hospital....our pastor presided. Mom survived and became a miracle in the medical world. She gave all the glory to God for many yrs. She has a newer inoperable tumor on her eye now and went thru radiation a few yrs back to stop it. Anyway, I've been crying and I can see sadness in my dad and my sister's. My mom is generous and stubborn. Thanks for reading and praying. My mom's name is Sheila.
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Post by pstokes522 on Jun 12, 2017 23:47:18 GMT -5
I'll be praying for your family tkk. On another note, since you're hiking I assume you're doing better physically??
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Post by tkk2 on Jun 13, 2017 5:36:55 GMT -5
The place we stayed had a hot springs pool which I swam in the entire time....i think that helped loosen me up....so yes I went on an easy hike....stayed on dirt roads. I'm hurting a lot yesterday and today, back at work, sitting
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Post by pstokes522 on Jun 14, 2017 8:59:16 GMT -5
I'm sorry you're still in pain. 😢
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Post by Adrienne on Jun 14, 2017 15:11:45 GMT -5
Hey TK, first off, on an unrelated note - I can see your new photo!! :-)
I'm really sorry you're still in pain, and that the vacation didn't go as well as hoped, but glad you could spend some time with your family all the same and get some movement and time in the soothing hot springs. I continue to pray for your healing and relief from pain!!
It's always hard when family stuff happens and we feel like we are stuck in the middle. I, like you, am a total peacemaker and always bend over backwards trying to keep the peace between various family members. But I've often been reminded that my abilities and responsibilities in that area are more limited than I sometimes think that they are. Try to pray about it and really listen to God's guidance on what you should say, and how much you should say - either to your son-in-law/sister or your mom. Sometimes I find that the best thing I can do is just listen.
My mom sounds somewhat similar to yours. She is very generous, but gets her feelings hurt easily and then doesn't want to hear anything about forgiveness. Give her time and hopefully things will calm down. But I'll be praying for peace between your family members, and also for healing for your mom - I'm sure that the health problem only adds to her sense of stress and tension about having perfect family time.
Keep us posted, sister, and let us know how we can continue to pray <3
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