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Post by fordlindsey5314 on Nov 12, 2016 17:55:37 GMT -5
Hi everyone. I'm asking for prayers if ya'll can. Tomorrow is mine and Andy's 6 year anniversary... 6 years ago he came into my life and changed me forever. I love this man with all my heart and soul! It kind of hit me today that, just how I'm having conflicting thoughts about being with him or not, maybe he is as well. I just hope he will realize that even though we have problems, love can conquer all. I just pray that he remembers that it's our anniversary and he will be kind, and pray that the right words come to me if he decides to acknowledge it. Thank ya'll so much... I continue to pray for every one of you daily
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Post by tkk2 on Nov 13, 2016 5:14:03 GMT -5
The milestones are always challenging as we continue the choice to stand. Lindsey, don't doubt that God as you exactly where he wants you right now. And Andy too! I'm praying the holy spirit interedes today for you both.
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Post by pstokes522 on Nov 13, 2016 8:38:34 GMT -5
tk is right - God is working all this together for your good. It's so hard to think that out of the pain we all feel, something good is going come. But that's how we will KNOW that it comes from God. We are just like the wandering Israelites - constantly forgetting who our blessings come from. God loves you and Andy so much that He isn't willing to let y'all continue to struggle on your own. Instead He wants to show you WHO to lean on, and do it in a lasting way, so neither of you ever forget. I know anniversaries, birthdays, holidays are hard - we all do - I'll be praying for you both. Just really seek The Lord. Cry out to Him and He will pull you close.
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Post by Adrienne on Nov 13, 2016 10:18:23 GMT -5
I'm praying for you today Lindsey!
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Post by fordlindsey5314 on Nov 13, 2016 14:00:04 GMT -5
Thank ya'll so much. He messaged me and asked me if I'd made changes on the divorce papers (my middle name was spelled wrong) and mailed them back yet. I said yes even though I haven't actually put them in the mail yet. I'll do that tomorrow. It is what it is at this point :/ He said thanks, I said you're welcome, and that was that. Still remaining hopeful!
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Post by Mary H on Nov 13, 2016 17:21:29 GMT -5
Good job Lindsey!
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Post by fordlindsey5314 on Nov 13, 2016 17:36:15 GMT -5
Thanks Mary... there was so much I wanted to say but I "zipped my lips" haha!! Still nothing... still hoping!!
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Post by Adrienne on Nov 13, 2016 20:22:45 GMT -5
Hi Lindsey, I'm glad you were able to hold it in and not say anything negative to your husband. Take it to the cross! Our Lord loves us so much and really wants to listen to us!
I'm sorry that his communication today wasn't more positive, but I actually still take it as a praise that he reached out to you... I am imagining (maybe!) that he might have remembered the day and felt guilty as he was typing that and pushed through and texted anyway as a way of resisting that feeling. But God will not leave him at peace with this; our God will continue working on Him. I am praying for patience and peace and increased faith for you!
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Post by fordlindsey5314 on Nov 13, 2016 21:22:08 GMT -5
Thank you so much Adrienne. I hate he didn't reach out in a more positive way either but I'm trusting God is working things out, and like you said, hopefully he still thought about it. Thank you for those prayers, they are much needed!!
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Post by Sharon on Nov 14, 2016 1:52:05 GMT -5
I was thinking the same thing Adrienne. I am sure that is God giving a glimpse of Andy's thoughts. He is restless. He has had you on his mind Lindsey. His lashing out was a rebellion. www.youtube.com/watch?v=MHQPuok_LnY
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Post by fordlindsey5314 on Nov 14, 2016 11:06:53 GMT -5
Thank you Sharon, that brings me to tears :/
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