Post by Mary H on Sept 2, 2016 10:35:27 GMT -5
He texted again today & mentioned divorce & asked about child support & visitation. I told him I won't fight him on anything. He can do whatever he wants. He's said, "Really??? I can have joint?"
I told him I may not agree with it but God is telling me that I'm to submit & let his lead. He said, "ok.. I'm not taking them from you & I will do right by them"
I went on about me not wanting them to grow up thinking ungodliness is ok but my trust in God & submission to Him & my husband. He didn't respond.
God told me the kids have to go with him before He will win Tony's heart. That even He will win his heart through the kids.. But so much I want this to stop... So very much..
Please pray
He is a very bad influence for the kids right now.. He has really bad rage issues that he refuses to get real help for.. He abuses alc, weed, & pills. Maybe even harder things that I don't know about. He spanks the babies for every little thing.. He would often fall asleep & basically neglect them. He makes fun of their hair or little stuff like that.. Now this isn't who he really is, but who the enemy is having him be. His gf looks mean on her fb.. None of her pictures is she smiling.. Honestly she looks like she's on drugs.. Tony's mom told me they fight all time & that she thinks the ow is having him so bad things.. So so very much I want to take this to court & fight him on this.. I want to protect my kids more than anything else.. This is the hardest thing I've ever done in my life and I don't want to let them go....
I told him I may not agree with it but God is telling me that I'm to submit & let his lead. He said, "ok.. I'm not taking them from you & I will do right by them"
I went on about me not wanting them to grow up thinking ungodliness is ok but my trust in God & submission to Him & my husband. He didn't respond.
God told me the kids have to go with him before He will win Tony's heart. That even He will win his heart through the kids.. But so much I want this to stop... So very much..
Please pray
He is a very bad influence for the kids right now.. He has really bad rage issues that he refuses to get real help for.. He abuses alc, weed, & pills. Maybe even harder things that I don't know about. He spanks the babies for every little thing.. He would often fall asleep & basically neglect them. He makes fun of their hair or little stuff like that.. Now this isn't who he really is, but who the enemy is having him be. His gf looks mean on her fb.. None of her pictures is she smiling.. Honestly she looks like she's on drugs.. Tony's mom told me they fight all time & that she thinks the ow is having him so bad things.. So so very much I want to take this to court & fight him on this.. I want to protect my kids more than anything else.. This is the hardest thing I've ever done in my life and I don't want to let them go....
