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Post by Mary H on Aug 22, 2016 17:04:01 GMT -5
He texted today for the first time in 2 months. He said he's filing for divorce & wants me to let him have the kids at his house every other weekend. He said he will get that either way. He said he will take me to court but would rather not have to fight in court because it's more time & money. He hasn't had anything to do with our kids in 3 months. No call, only checked up on them once through text, no money.. Last I herd he has no job, yet he said he has a house with a bedroom.. I guess he moved in with his girlfriend? His mom recently told me she thinks he's on drugs & that he has constant rage fits.. Fights with his girlfriend all the time.. I'm not sure what to do.. I asked him why he hasn't had anything to do with the kids & he said, "because I hate you" this is all through text.. I've givin him no reason to hate me.. I just told him I would pray about it & let him know.. I asked to meet his girlfriend before I start letting my kids go with them. He hasn't responded..
I need prayers big time
Thank u
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Post by Adrienne on Aug 22, 2016 18:39:19 GMT -5
I'm praying for you Mary. I know this has been a really hard season for you. God has often spoken to you in dreams, so pray for Him to make His will clear to you. I'll be praying for the same.
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Post by tschnelli on Aug 22, 2016 19:31:29 GMT -5
Praying hard for you Mary. Continue to be a reflection of Jesus. The Lord will convict him. I will be praying for you and your kids. Keeping them from seeing and hearing too much. Prayer for your heart to feel the comfort of Christ's loving embrace.
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Post by tkk2 on Aug 22, 2016 21:56:05 GMT -5
Mary, it sounds like Satan has him bound up more now than ever. I'm praying for a breakthrough with him. I think you are smart to want to meet someone who might be a part of your children's life's. I cant imagine the courts giving him much parenting time with no job and no lease in his name. Stay strong! Everyday give it to god all over again
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Post by leandro on Aug 22, 2016 22:04:24 GMT -5
Maryh I will be praying for you tonight, keep fighting the good fight, is not over yet!!
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Post by Mary H on Aug 22, 2016 22:31:18 GMT -5
I can feel your prayers everyone.. Thank u so much..
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Post by Sharon on Aug 22, 2016 23:03:58 GMT -5
That evil spirit over him should hate you. You are Gods light in Tony's life and you're the light that God will use to shine through and break the chains on Tony. That demon on him should definitely hate you and the God you serve. Don't be afraid Mary. You have the Most Powerful behind you. The enemy has not even a speck of His power and can not compare at all. The enemy will be defeated off of Tony and God has promised you it will be soon. Don't lose hope. Now is the time to press harder then ever before into your prayer and love for God. He is doing something miraculous here.
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Post by Mary H on Aug 23, 2016 6:43:26 GMT -5
Thanks Sharon!
I completely agree with you
It's coming swiftly
So very much I appreciate all of your support encouragment & prayers
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Post by erika on Aug 23, 2016 7:32:01 GMT -5
I feel for you but don't worry !! God has everything under control. I'm praying for you !! Don't give up I know Tony's words hurt but remember is not him is the enemy speaking thru him. "Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials … so that you may be mature and complete” (James 1:2, 4). God will restore your marriage !! I know He will.
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Post by Mary H on Aug 24, 2016 13:56:48 GMT -5
He didn't respond yesterday when I asked who the OW is & if I can meet her before our kids do.
Then today he ignored that text & said, so are we getting divorced or not?
I said, I'd rather not but I'll give u whatever you want.
He went on about child support & visitation which I told him is all up to him.
He said he don't know what I think God said but he's ready for divorce & he suggested I've been under long term demonic oppression that satans been tricking me into thinking their was hope just to weaken my faith when the divorce is final.
I gently assured him that he has on blinders but they're only temporary. I told him I'm confident in what the Lord has spoken to me & that I'll always be here for him & will always be ready to forgive.
I also let him know our kids arnt really interested in going to his house if mommy can't go, but I left it up to him weather we make them go aginst their will.
He hasn't responded so I'm not sure.. I really think the kids have to go with him in order for the Lord to get Tony's heart, but I'm not 100%.. I'm hoping that by a miricle, the kids won't have to go with him & he will leave us alone until the day he re-gives his heart to Jesus.. Only time will tell. Just have to trust Him
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Post by leandro on Aug 24, 2016 14:12:18 GMT -5
Wow Maryh you can discern right away that tony is blinded by the enemy, you have to keep declaring the word of God over your marriage and your children. I'm glad that you are able to see things the way you see them which is marriage restoration through our lord. God bless you and I'll keep you in my prayers.
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Post by Mary H on Aug 24, 2016 17:21:42 GMT -5
Thank you Leandro
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Post by Sharon on Aug 24, 2016 23:41:43 GMT -5
It really sounds to me like he is using the kids, the divorce, even saying that the devil is speaking to you. He's trying to manipulate in whatever way he thinks he can to get you to react the way you "always do" so he can justify his actions somehow in his heart. I don't think he really cares about this woman but he's using her for a place to stay. I think he really cares a lot about you and the kids but the enemy is so heavy on him that he feels he can't be home. My best friends husband had this too - the enemy was deep on him that when she cast the enemy out of he house, her husband left because he thought he wasn't allowed in their home. He couldn't distinguish between the enemy and himself. Keep praying Mary that the blinders come off. I will keep praying for him too
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Post by william on Aug 25, 2016 9:22:46 GMT -5
Sister Mary,
I agree completely with everyone that this is the enemy working on him & feeding him lies which has him torn up inside & out. Keep praying sister, the enemy is trying to get to you thru his words & actions stay strong and remember he has no athourity over Tony, the kids or you. I will be praying.
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