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Post by tschnelli on Aug 8, 2016 10:15:30 GMT -5
Hi all, My name is Tyler, I am 27 years old and live in California. My wife and I have been married for two and a half years. Two months ago she came back from a track and field trip to Florida and told me she was done. She moved out and I haven't seen her in weeks. During counseling it came out that she was being unfaithful and is continuing to do so.
The reactions from my friends have been mixed. Some of them tell me it's time to move on and that I have every right to walk away. The others encourage me to fight and continue to pursue her (that group is much smaller). I believe strongly in the importance and power of the covenant I made with her, before God. This is so hard and I feel so broken.
I work a day job but when I'm not there I am hanging with high school students through the ministry of YoungLife. I have been involved in youth ministry for 10+ years and love working with students.
I am thankful to have found this group through an invite from someone of Instagram. I look forward to interacting with you all in the near future. I know some of us are in the hardest times of our lives and others are here to stand with us. I appreciate that, and you. Have a blessed day.
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Post by tkk2 on Aug 8, 2016 10:51:08 GMT -5
Welcome to the group Tyler! We are all here because god has laid on our hearts to stand for our marriages, our lost prodigals and ultimately God himself. You will find we are a very encouraging group. I'll be praying for you and your marriage. It's no accident you found us. GOD is great..believe in the plan he has for you and your marriage. I would recommend a terrific website...Rejoice Ministries....truly a godsend.
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Post by tschnelli on Aug 8, 2016 14:04:44 GMT -5
Welcome to the group Tyler! We are all here because god has laid on our hearts to stand for our marriages, our lost prodigals and ultimately God himself. You will find we are a very encouraging group. I'll be praying for you and your marriage. It's no accident you found us. GOD is great..believe in the plan he has for you and your marriage. I would recommend a terrific website...Rejoice Ministries....truly a godsend. Thank you! I will check it out.
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Post by Adrienne on Aug 8, 2016 15:42:54 GMT -5
Welcome, Tyler! I'm glad you found your way over here! :-) I know firsthand how hard it is to deal with infidelity in a marriage but our God is amazing and He can heal broken hearts and lives! We'll all be praying for you and your wife!
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Post by tschnelli on Aug 8, 2016 19:54:46 GMT -5
Welcome, Tyler! I'm glad you found your way over here! :-) I know firsthand how hard it is to deal with infidelity in a marriage but our God is amazing and He can heal broken hearts and lives! We'll all be praying for you and your wife! Thank you so much. I really appreciate it.
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Post by marissaa91 on Aug 8, 2016 20:38:36 GMT -5
Welcome Tyler! Sorry you are in a situation where you need this group but I hope you find it as encouraging and up lifting as I have! We have all become good friends here, I hope you do too. I'll be praying for you and your marriage. God can redeem anything, keep your head up!
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Post by Eric W. on Aug 8, 2016 20:54:33 GMT -5
Welcome, brother. As others have said, we are sorry you have come to this point, but are glad you have chosen to stand in faith with us.
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Post by Mary H on Aug 8, 2016 21:59:47 GMT -5
Welcome Tyler! I will be praying for you and your wife!
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Post by tschnelli on Aug 8, 2016 22:59:52 GMT -5
Thanks all. I feel truly blessed.
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Post by pstokes522 on Aug 8, 2016 23:03:20 GMT -5
Welcome Tyler! We are all in different age groups, from different areas of the country, and have been standing for various amounts of time. But we all love God and are all here to love & support each other during this season of our life that God has us in. I hope you find this group as encouraging as I have. ~Pat
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Post by tschnelli on Aug 9, 2016 1:07:08 GMT -5
Welcome Tyler! We are all in different age groups, from different areas of the country, and have been standing for various amounts of time. But we all love God and are all here to love & support each other during this season of our life that God has us in. I hope you find this group as encouraging as I have. ~Pat Thanks pat! Appreciate it and look forward to meeting you all.
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Post by tschnelli on Aug 9, 2016 1:07:25 GMT -5
Welcome Tyler! I will be praying for you and your wife! Thank you!
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Post by tschnelli on Aug 9, 2016 1:07:59 GMT -5
Welcome, brother. As others have said, we are sorry you have come to this point, but are glad you have chosen to stand in faith with us. I am sorry too but so encouraged to be a part of this group.
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Post by tschnelli on Aug 9, 2016 1:09:04 GMT -5
Welcome Tyler! Sorry you are in a situation where you need this group but I hope you find it as encouraging and up lifting as I have! We have all become good friends here, I hope you do too. I'll be praying for you and your marriage. God can redeem anything, keep your head up! I look forward to interacting with everyone. It is a hard time for sure. Hardest of my life. But the encouragement and blessings from God have been overwhelming.
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Post by william on Aug 10, 2016 17:44:50 GMT -5
Brother,
You will find this site to be a great asset, know that you have game Ned a family and we will be praying for you.
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