No date yet but, God is working!

I agree with Adrienne - of course we don't know the dynamics of your marriage that he's referring to, but I see positive vibes coming from him. It looks to me like the ball in is your court. Pray hard for God to lead you into the direction He wants you to go, and I'm confident Andy will be at the end of that destination. I'll keep praying for you both.

In my experience, Tony came home with this very same attitude. It was so very hard. It seemed like at least 5 times a day he was saying, "your just going to go back to how you were before" and he was constantly waiting for me to mess up in the slightest way so he could point it out & say, "I told you your the same, you'll never change" it was terrible to say the least. But after a while of that, he started seeing that I really had changed a lot & he saw how much my relationship w the Lord has grown since hed been away. Then I noticed him really pull away around this time because now that he couldn't point his finger at me in the relationship, he was faced with his own issues that he hadn't grown in at all- infact it was as if while we were apart, he took big steps backward in his over all maturity, & definatly in his walk with the Lord. He had no relationship at all with the Lord at this point.
Him pulling away was so hard because I could see what was happening & he couldn't. And I was told to zip my lips from the Father. That was such a challenge.
He eventually left again although he never would say that we were officially back together. His reason for moving back out was that he will never want to be with me because he can't forgive me for how I used to be.. I prayed, I said everything possible for a couple of weeks to try & reach him, but he was already out of my grasp..
Nothing- no matter how true- was touching him.
Multiple times the Holy Spirit was speaking through me like a fire & he remained unmoved; set in his ways.
The day he moved out is the day he made it "Facebook official" with a girl that I knew nothing about. The enemy had him ensnared with her at this point. They've been together for 2 months now & hasn't paid a penny toward the kids, hasn't saw them since he moved out, hasn't called & wont answer his phone. Rarely responds to texts. I think he's on drugs.. His mom didn't go into detail but she said she's never been more afraid for him & says he's going down a really bad path.. I'm sorta rambling at this point, but what I was trying to get across is that when he comes home, the battle has only started. I don't mean to put fear in you, but more just a realization & motivation to seek the Lord like never before. Surround your self with godly friends. Stay very involved in church. Stay in the word and in prayer as much as possible.
I'm praying for you