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Post by fordlindsey5314 on Jul 12, 2016 8:25:54 GMT -5
Ok ya'll, I'm a little in shock. I woke up at about 1 AM and just randomly checked my phone. I saw a message on Facebook messenger from Andy. It started of with "ok, I tell you what, you say you've changed... I hope you've gotten your license by now... plan a date and pick me up". I didn't read it bc I wanted to make sure I said the right thing to him. I don't have my drivers license yet and I'm so afraid that's gonna make him mad. Jerk terms made by him but wow, what a change. I need to see what the rest of the message says but omg I'm freaking out ha!! I'm sorry I've been so quiet on here, I've just been really down, and I pray this isn't a trick or something. Prayers needed please!!!
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Post by pstokes522 on Jul 12, 2016 8:58:30 GMT -5
Go get your license today...
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Post by fordlindsey5314 on Jul 12, 2016 9:21:50 GMT -5
HA Patricia, I can't, I'm in another state on vacation. Plus, I don't think I'm fully ready.
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Post by Mary H on Jul 12, 2016 11:11:42 GMT -5
Don't be afraid to upset him.. You stay confident in Christ & stay close with Him. Don't do a thing until youve prayed heavy for a while about it first. Why can't he come to you? I hope it's not a trick & that he is serious about reconciliation. I've been through some crazy things in my life, & hands down the hardest thing I've ever went through was Tony coming home without turning to God first.. If he really does get back with you, praise God that He's moving within Andys life, but brace yourself- You will have to draw closer to Jesus like never before. I'm praying for you sister & praising God for the message from Andy!!
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Post by william on Jul 12, 2016 12:09:39 GMT -5
This is awesome!!!! God is working, I am so happy & thankful.
Get to studying for your liscence call and see if able to get it where your at?
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Post by fordlindsey5314 on Jul 13, 2016 9:06:56 GMT -5
Thank you Mary and William  I still haven't even read the full message from my husband yet. Fear of him being mean and angry again... I guess I'm scared of getting my hopes up. I will be home in a week or two and hopefully I'll be able to get my license. I just want him to be understanding and at least see that I'm trying. If he ends our marriage over something like that... it's just sad, this whole mess is sad but I'm proud of myself for seeing my faults, working on them, and bettering myself as a person. I can only pray that my husband sees that. Thank ya'll for your prayers! |
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Post by marissaa91 on Jul 13, 2016 10:40:21 GMT -5
Amazing praise report! I'll keep this in prayer today!
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Post by fordlindsey5314 on Jul 13, 2016 10:53:33 GMT -5
Thank you Marissa. I finally read the whole message and he was nice but demanding. And he said if I don't have my license forget it. So now I'm scared :/
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Post by marissaa91 on Jul 13, 2016 11:04:45 GMT -5
Don't be scared! Just cover yourself and him in prayer before responding. Pray that God be your words and that He hears God speaking when he reads the message. God is working here, so even if he does get upset try not to be afraid. God is love not fear and he will sustain you through this. I'll be praying♡
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Post by fordlindsey5314 on Jul 13, 2016 11:14:58 GMT -5
Thank you. I just don't know whether to tell him I don't have my license or if I should just tell him ok and a date, and then pray that I can get it.
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Post by Mary H on Jul 13, 2016 11:48:06 GMT -5
Be honest that you don't have your Licence but that you have plans to get them soon. Don't be desperate for him. If he decides not to get back together because you don't have your Licence, that's ok!
At least you can see this as the Holy Spirit moving in his heart! He will turn to God soon! He's definatly working within your husband! Don't be afraid of his rejection.. Emerge yourself in Jesus & His love
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Post by marissaa91 on Jul 13, 2016 12:37:50 GMT -5
I agree with Mary. Don't start things off with a lie. Be honest but say that you have arrangements to get it in place.
I know the thought of rejection is hard and scary. God has and will take us there at different times in life. But those are the moments when we have to decide who is more important, God or our spouse? Who will help you no matter what happens, God or your spouse? God is in control, pray, do his will and let it be.
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Post by fordlindsey5314 on Jul 13, 2016 12:43:21 GMT -5
Thank you Marissa and Mary... I definitely don't want to lie to him. I keep worrying about his reaction but I'm trying to be grateful bc I was on his mind enough for him to even want to give things a chance. If he truly loves me he will see that I'm trying and he will still want to see me. I'm just praying for the right words to come.
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Post by fordlindsey5314 on Jul 13, 2016 14:52:06 GMT -5
Ok, July 30th is our date, ya'll please pray that Andy's heart is changing and softening, and that I will be able to get my license. I'm not very confident in my driving yet, and it'll be hard to practice away from home but I'm gonna try my hardest.I want things to work out so much... thank you God for this chance!
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Post by marissaa91 on Jul 13, 2016 15:41:59 GMT -5
Keep praying until then, I'll be praying for you too!
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I still haven't even read the full message from my husband yet. Fear of him being mean and angry again... I guess I'm scared of getting my hopes up. I will be home in a week or two and hopefully I'll be able to get my license. I just want him to be understanding and at least see that I'm trying. If he ends our marriage over something like that... it's just sad, this whole mess is sad but I'm proud of myself for seeing my faults, working on them, and bettering myself as a person. I can only pray that my husband sees that. Thank ya'll for your prayers! 