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Post by marissaa91 on Mar 5, 2016 20:33:31 GMT -5
So the last 3 days my husband has been calling non stop and wanting to be around a little more. But when he came over today he wanted to kiss and get intimate and I let him kiss me but I didn't let it go much more beyond that. I told him,"You wanna act like my husband in every way except by moving back in." He just kind of shook his head and kissed me again. I'm happy he's coming around but I don't understand. The second I ignore him he wants to blow me up and when his friends aren't around as much he wants to hang out. I know I should look at this differently but I'm just confused. Please pray for my husband and for me to have clarity in this situation. I need to remember to seek God above anything else, even my husband.
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Post by Mary H on Mar 5, 2016 21:08:02 GMT -5
It sounds like it may be that the enemy is secretly convincing you that with holding love from your husband with give you the results you desire. Don't fall into that trap! Satan is a liar! God made it clear to me a few months before Tony came home, that if I'm going to stand for our marriage, I need to be his wife in every way weather Tony acts like my husband or not; out of obedience to Him.. The Word says our bodies are not our own, & we are not to with hold them from our spouse. Remember, each time your intimate, the Holy Spirit is present & unifying you together because of you belief & obedience. The Lord can plant little seeds within your husband with your uinion together.
I know how it hurts to feel used, especially after hearing that song he sent about how your just a one night stand, but that's a lie! Satan is lying to him! You are his convent wife weather he acts like it or not. I'm praying for you guys
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Post by marissaa91 on Mar 5, 2016 21:12:17 GMT -5
Thank you Mary for that perspective. I think I needed to read that. I mean when he came for lunch I did cook and offer him food even though he didn't take it. And I've been talking to him on and off today cause he keeps calling me to talk. I just hate this feeling of not knowing how to act and when to respond to him. I can feel my mind being confused and I know that's not from God.
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Post by Adrienne on Mar 5, 2016 21:41:37 GMT -5
I agree with Mary on this point. I sometimes get to that point of feeling confused, like I don't know how to act or how exactly to approach my husband. What I do is try to ask myself "How can I show love right now? Or, How am I showing love in this action?"
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Post by marissaa91 on Mar 5, 2016 22:29:05 GMT -5
Thank you Adrienne, I'll have to ask myself that when I'm feeling confused
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Post by Sharon on Mar 6, 2016 12:27:14 GMT -5
I agree with Adrienne and Mary! Don't over think things. It's easy to think you're supposed to react one way or another in order to get a result, but whatever happens, God is going to use that for good. No opportunity is a truly missed opportunity. Continue to be loving
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Post by leanna72 on Mar 14, 2016 11:22:17 GMT -5
Marissa I agree very much with what had already been listed above. Every chance I get to be intimate with my husband I do. I know that the holy spirit bonds us when we do and that I am acting out of love and affection. If you feel God leading you a certain way pray on it and follow his path.
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