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Post by marissaa91 on May 8, 2016 17:49:39 GMT -5
Today my sis in law told my sister (her best friend) that she couldn't go wi th them to dinner. Apparently she said that my mother-in-law didn't want my sister to "steal her thunder" because she's a mom too. Well my sis got hurt and upset and so she text my mother-in-law. Which obviously upset her. So now my family is mad because of what my mother in law said and my husband and in-laws are mad at my sister for saying anything at all to their mom. It's a disaster and idk how it's gonna be when my husband comes home to my family. Please pray. I would greatly appreciate it.
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Post by Adrienne on May 8, 2016 18:53:46 GMT -5
I will pray for you right now Marissa. I would suggest that you try your best to stay out of it as much as possible and encourage Garrett to do the same, although I know sometimes that's hard. Remember we have a God of peace and I am praying for peace in your heart and home tonight.
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Post by leandro on May 8, 2016 19:25:31 GMT -5
Marissa stay strong remember that division is one of the enemy's weapons, stay calm and give all those burdens to God. I will pray for your family and you.
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Post by marissaa91 on May 8, 2016 20:22:20 GMT -5
Thank you both. My in-laws seemed more calm about it when I left. Still obviously upset but doing other things. Although they did find out that my M.I.L's sister left rehab this morning  Then when I came home [without my husband] my family seemed ok. Still upset about the situation if asked but doing other things. Hopefully when my husband comes home it'll be peaceful. I don't want to hear either side say "Well your mom..." or "Your daughter..." No. At this point I have absolutely no tolerance for either side bad mouthing each other when it isn't me or my husband's fight. I just hope keeping him from wanting to protect his mom and my family wanting to protect my sister doesn't cloud anyone's judgement. I'm still gonna have to pray over it all. |
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Post by marissaa91 on May 8, 2016 22:31:18 GMT -5
Talked to both my husband (on the phone) and my family about the situation. I told each separately that we can't be involved because last year when we got involved in our sister's fighting we didn't talk for days and I won't do it again. My family, for the most part, understood. My husband was still very much upset and I told him it's ok to be upset because it is his mom but we still can't get involved. He said he'd stay out of it but by how mad he still was I'm gonna keep praying. I put in a request for a day off tomorrow. After everything, I need a mental health day to recuperate from everything this year.
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