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Post by marissaa91 on May 6, 2016 11:00:29 GMT -5
Please pray for us. Last night Garrett got upset thinking I was doing something to check on him when I wasn't (it was seriously over nothing). Well I was upset because the level of mad/upset he got made me think he had to hiding something. Which I told him. Well this morning I checked his phone which I haven't in over a week. I didn't find anything but he found out I looked and flipped. He left for work angry without giving me a kiss goodbye. I text him I was sorry for doing it behind his back instead of talking to him about my question or concerns. I also said I would do that in the future so we can deal with it properly. But he's still upset. Please pray for us, for him. I don't think he'll talk to me until he gets home tonight.
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Post by marissaa91 on May 6, 2016 13:15:39 GMT -5
So an idea crossed my mind, I need feedback. I'm thinking about asking my husband when he talks to me tonight to take my fingerprint off his phone so I can't look at it without talking to him first. I don't particularly like the idea, I hate it actually because I'm afraid he'll take it as he can whatever he wants. But I know it'll also force me to trust that he's not doing anything and trust the The Lord will deal with him if he does.
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Post by Adrienne on May 6, 2016 13:58:39 GMT -5
Praying for you Marissa. G actually changed the password on his phone when he found out I was snooping so I couldn't get on there anymore. For a long time I looked for any possible chance; if he set it down unlocked on accident, you better believe I grabbed it the moment his back was turned. I realized that it was wrong and promised myself NO MORE. I haven't looked sense and it's honestly a wonderful relief. Every once in a while I still get paranoid, but then I just try and give it right back to God. It's such a relief to just trust that God has got this.
So.. my feedback is that I think that's a really good idea. And I will continue praying for you both!
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Post by Sharon on May 6, 2016 15:31:17 GMT -5
I am one of these that believes that God will reveal the truth if you ask Him to. I know for me, it makes me trust Chris more, knowing that his phone is available to me if I get nervous and so I'm grateful to God that he put my fingerprint on his phone, but honestly I have found out the truth more often through chance more then snooping and I know that is God revealing whatever is dark and bringing it into the light. You don't have to trust Garrett honestly, but you have to trust God. So if you think asking him to remove your thumb will help kill the distraction then you do that. For me, even if I never checked his phone ever, knowing that I can makes me trust him a little more. But honestly, Adrienne is right that snooping never does any good. Like I said, God will bring everything to light and you have to trust Him
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Post by marissaa91 on May 6, 2016 18:28:05 GMT -5
Sharon that's how I originality felt bit then it turned into this. But like Adrienne did, I'm afraid if he had a student code I'd want to look at it more. I don't know, I think I have to wait until he's home to see what he says. I'm gonna pray about it.
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