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Post by tkk2 on Apr 20, 2016 22:18:31 GMT -5
I have apologized several times for the same thing. ...and again tonight. His comment tonite was he can't forgive because he can't forget.
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Post by Mary H on Apr 21, 2016 8:11:27 GMT -5
Tony says that too.. The enemy has them focused on their emotions rather than God.. We have to keep showing love & forgivness & cast out in Jesus name, the demons that keep them bound
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Post by Adrienne on Apr 21, 2016 9:21:57 GMT -5
I'm sorry to hear that TK... I know it must be so frustrating to keep circling back to the same thing of "I can't forget." I will continue praying for you both, for these chains to be broken and for Dana to be liberated to experience true grace and thus be able to give grace himself. Keep praying, dear friend, don't give up... I know it is hard as the worldly procedures of divorce move forward, but our God is above and beyond that and He has the last word.
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Post by tkk2 on Apr 21, 2016 9:41:55 GMT -5
A hope! A praise! This one is from Dana this morning. I wrote him another letter ...this one short. early this morning. Left it for him at work, got back in my car and there is an email he copied me on:
"Heather. Please reference case # xxx. Please reschedule our mediation date of April 27 for mediation to a later date if possible. I visited with Timi-Kay last night and found out she has not been served. We are so not ready to sit with a mediator and need more time to be properly prepared. I have included Timi-Kay on this email. Dana."
I'm thinking this is good....God is guiding him to wait, for the moment. Praise! Also, he used my real name. Dana has always called me TK....thats what all my clients call me (because it's easier than my real name, which i love). Dana was my client several years before we married. ...i can't remember a note or card with anything but TK on it....i have been signing all my letters to him ...Timi.
I mentioned to him last night that he hasn't made an effort to remember me. I asked him a basic question. ...what is my favorite color. He couldn't remember. So, i feel good he used my proper name. That's what my family calls me.
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Post by Adrienne on Apr 21, 2016 10:26:15 GMT -5
Dear Timi, your name is beautiful! I feel more connected to you just knowing your full first name. This is certainly an amazing praise!! I will continue praying for you both!!
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Post by Sharon on Apr 21, 2016 16:07:09 GMT -5
As crazy as your evening sounds, I'm going to count it as a win for God. That devotional I posted about change really made me think of you TK. It's so hard to get out of the norm that you are used to. What I see in that conversation is God working. Obviously your husband is confused about how he feels because he's hearing God's voice in one ear and the enemy in the other. If he is hearing God though, you can be confident that God has a plan and is doing work here. Don't be afraid! Change is good and this will be a victory in God's book!
Just read your newest comment with the email. I am so overjoyed to read that email. You are so wise and are definitely hearing God's voice. The fact that you continued your life as normal, but didn't make it easy to get served, God honored that. And look at how he is honoring your submission to his will now. He is doing so much work and Dana is hearing His voice. Praise God.
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Post by annie on Apr 22, 2016 16:04:43 GMT -5
Loved reading this TK!! I feel like I am often trekking along barely able to make it out of my own murk and mire to hear what everyone else has going on-- this was a beautiful praise that the Lord guided me to!! I hope you see it as awesome and wonderfully inspiring as I do!! Prayers!
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Post by marissaa91 on Apr 22, 2016 20:03:16 GMT -5
Definitely a praise! God is always working, glad to see this is a step in the right direction even if it's small.
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