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Post by C on Mar 4, 2016 13:53:54 GMT -5
I talked to a lawyer today. I feel like everything is going wrong even though I am not the one doing wrong. At this point if I filed, I would have to pay him child support and possibly alimony because I make more than he does. I feel like I'm being punished for what he is doing. I'm so frustrated. Maybe this is God closing that door of me filing. Please pray that His will be done in this situation. I'm tired of fighting.
Thanks
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Post by Mary H on Mar 4, 2016 15:15:07 GMT -5
I'm so sorry your going through this.. I can't imagine
I felt like God told me that if my husband were to actually get papers, that I am not to sign them. Maybe he's saying that to you? Seek him like you never have before! Use this crazy time of hurt to draw even nearer.
Praying for you!
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Post by Eric W. on Mar 4, 2016 16:21:18 GMT -5
When we are most tired and most upset is exactly the time to lean into God. Don't let the devil win by giving up on God. Give this burden over to him. There are days you may have to give it to him 5, 10, a 1000 times. When you can let go, and let God move is when miracles can happen.
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Post by Sharon on Mar 4, 2016 16:54:39 GMT -5
My friend told me that when her husband was in the world and things like this happened for them, she would feel wrong in her spirit for the things he was doing, because God has made them one. You will suffer for your husbands sin, but hold tight to God in these moments and all you can really do is trust him. You can't fix the legal system and you can't fix your husband, but let God use this to do something for you. I am praying that he will bless you through this trial
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Post by Adrienne on Mar 4, 2016 17:56:31 GMT -5
C, I'm so sorry. I imagine this must be so frustrating! I agree with Eric that moments like this are when we need to look to God even more. I am reminded just how much I need Him when things get so tough like this. I will be praying for peace in your heart!
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Post by tkk2 on Mar 4, 2016 19:33:54 GMT -5
It might help to look at your situation through god's eyes. He brought you together in marriage. Don't believe the world that the easy way out is divorce....that's satan telling you to walk. Stay in prayer, stand for your vows. Right now your spouse can't or won't....god is still watching you. Welcome to the group....we love you and your prodigal. GOD BLESS
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Post by william on Mar 4, 2016 20:07:20 GMT -5
C, I'm praying for you sister. Keep your eyes on God, what I try to do when faced with really difficult things I try to take a step back and pray asking for God what am I to do, what are you trying to tell or teach me. I will be praying for Gods peace, love and understanding for you.
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Post by renee on Mar 5, 2016 7:01:09 GMT -5
Praying for you C. I pray for God's guidance for you and to give you the strength you need during this hard time.
This is only my 3rd day in this group and understand why you guys were so upset when KLove removed the group's. I actually thank God that He allowed them to do this otherwise I would not be with all of you right now.
I know that this is bad but part of me wishes I wasn't here because then it would be easier to just walk away from my marriage.
In my heart though I know that God and Mary : ) is why I am here. This was the perfect time for you to have reached out to me because I really want it over.
C welcome to the group and stick with us. I am getting excited to see God work in all of our lives.
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Post by Mary H on Mar 5, 2016 17:36:44 GMT -5
So glad your in this group!!
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Post by Sharon on Mar 5, 2016 21:21:22 GMT -5
Listen to Jamie Graces You Lead when you have a chance.
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Post by Sharon on Mar 5, 2016 21:23:36 GMT -5
Yes Renee I am feeling that way too that the enemy tried to hurt us and disband our group and God used it for his glory and pulled in more standers who needed the support! Praise God for his amazing goodness! He overcomes the enemies evil schemes!
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Post by Eric W. on Mar 7, 2016 22:55:48 GMT -5
Father, reach out you arms and cover C, in your loving embrace. Let your warmth and love soak into her being. Give her the rest she needs to stand as you have called her. Father touch her prodigal husband, turn his eyes towards you Lord. Help them both come to a place where healing can begin. Lord in your name I pray, Amen.
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