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Post by Sharon on Mar 28, 2016 18:15:22 GMT -5
You begin to forgive by falling into Gods comfort. I know it's hard especially not to develop that bitterness - for me I did become bitter and stopped loving Chris completely but it took me so much longer to learn to forgive him that way. You are allowed to be sad and hurt but eventually you will have to put the sadness aside. Don't replay thoughts in your mind. When you start to dwell on a though, say Jesus name out loud and put on Klove and immerse yourself in prayer and worship. Right now you don't have to trust your husband - just trust God.
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Post by Adrienne on Mar 28, 2016 18:58:13 GMT -5
I'm praying for you Marissa. I know this is hard.
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Post by marissaa91 on Mar 28, 2016 19:24:46 GMT -5
Thank you both for the advice and prayers. I really appreciate them. We're ok right now. He's trying to make me laugh and cheer me up so I don't dwell on it. He did say he's surprised I haven't torn his head off. But I told him I am angry but I know God doesn't want me to be the old me that would fight and run to tell her bf. I said I'm not the kind of person to mess up someone else's relationship but I do feel bad for him because I respect him as a person. I also said I want to trust him right now but I can't. He doesn't want to dwell on it and I don't either but I do think he needs to deal with himself and the things he's done.
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