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Post by william on Jun 14, 2016 16:38:58 GMT -5
Sister,
My heart hurts for you and what your feeling. I am praying for you - keep your head up and faith strong, read over Psalm 27.
Know that we love you.
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Post by pstokes522 on Jun 15, 2016 7:52:27 GMT -5
I don't know the laws where you are, but where I live He could get a divorce even if I didn't agree or sign anything. I might have drawn out the process, but it would eventually happen and would have just caused more aggravation and problems between us. I did tell my husband that God hates divorce, and it is not what I want, but I would agree to it as a way of honoring him as my husband. I told him a piece of paper meant nothing to God or me, I still consider myself married and always will. He listened and didn't have much to say, but I know God can use my words spoken out of love and respect to be constantly replaying in his thoughts to counteract the lies Satan is telling him. Your husband sounds very angry, and while I agree that it's because Satan is lying to him, since you didn't even know he had divorce papers drawn up, his mean attitude is confusing. Pray about it and definitely follow God's direction, just know that even if the divorce does make its way through the courts and you are divorced in the eyes of the world, it doesn't mean it's the end. Sometimes God completely breaks something in order to remake it the way He wants it to be. I'm praying for you.
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Post by fordlindsey5314 on Jun 15, 2016 11:47:02 GMT -5
Thank you Patricia. I know that what you said us true. I'm just praying it doesn't get that far. It's just weird that... we haven't talked since February. We haven't been together in over a year. Why wait NOW, when I'm 6 hours away, trying to better my life... why now?!?! Is he just mad I'm out living life and he's home and miserable? I know only he knows but it's just something on my mind ha. William, thank you so much for your prayers as well. I looked up that Psalm and I will continue to read it  |
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Post by fordlindsey5314 on Jun 15, 2016 14:33:16 GMT -5
Just questioning/venting out loud...
I'm just so confused about Andy... he says he's been faithful so he obviously values our vows and me enough to honor them. But I don't understand why he doesn't value them or me enough to want to work things out. I know only he knows ha... just wanted some opinions, advice, anything...
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Post by leandro on Jun 15, 2016 15:27:03 GMT -5
Lindsey, Sometimes it could be that he is confused by the enemy, one day they say something, the other day they say the total opposite. Don't let that distract you from God, that is just something that the enemy uses to try to hurt us.
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Post by fordlindsey5314 on Jun 15, 2016 15:40:33 GMT -5
Thank you Leandro, I know you're right. His hurtful words make me want to forget my stand but I know that's not what God wants. It's just so hard sometimes!
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Post by tkk2 on Jun 15, 2016 18:02:43 GMT -5
Your heavy on my thoughts and in my prayers girl! If you aren't familiar with it. ...check out RejoiceMinistries.org....it's a great site about standing and dealing with separation and divorce. The lord will guide you. Be strong.
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Post by fordlindsey5314 on Jun 15, 2016 18:38:46 GMT -5
Thank you TK I love Rejoice Marriage Ministries, that was what got me to stand and not give up. |
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Post by Sharon on Jun 15, 2016 19:57:27 GMT -5
He may not even know. But God knows. He knows Andy deeper then Andy knows himself and he knows the enemy that tempts and tortures and steals and destroys. God can and wants to fix this and He has given you promises. Hold onto them
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Post by fordlindsey5314 on Jun 15, 2016 21:03:47 GMT -5
Thank you Sharon. I'm trying my best to hold on, I promise. I've made it too far to quit!
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