annie
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Post by annie on Apr 2, 2016 9:30:20 GMT -5
Had experience with OW who just will now give up? Lucas and her have been off and on since August and had completely broke up since December. When she found out Lucas and I were back to going out and spending time together she ended things with her new bf to try and get back with Lucas. And he took her back apparently. He started being distant and ugly to me again and then this week he says they are back together. I am so upset. Not to mention this OW is extremely young and pulling all kinds of manipulations to cause trouble and even texting herself on a texting app as me to make it look like I'm saying things I'm not saying. Any advice?
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Post by Sharon on Apr 2, 2016 10:28:49 GMT -5
It's really really hard to do this, but back off and "give up" is my advice. When my husband had his girlfriend in Korea, I didn't barely talk to him at all. It's so hard, but rely on God to be your husband. He will give you overwhelming peace and He really will become like your husband for you - money will come from no where, people will offer to watch your kids and do errands for you, work load will become easier. Seriously, it's amazing how many blessings I received while my husband was off in the world. When he did finally come home, it actually became harder, because I started focusing on my husband again. I've been trying recently to go back to God as my husband again and trust him with everything. He's the only one who can remove the OW, but I am praying that this will happen soon. In the mean time though, don't miss out on what God is trying to teach you. He has blessings for you, but you have to push away from the worry and the struggle and come back to God's love and peace in prayer and bible study.
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Post by annie on Apr 2, 2016 11:12:14 GMT -5
It is really hard.
So hard when you are being dragged through the mud and made to look really bad and then when your ex says she is trying to get pregnant. I am overcome with fear. Lucas and I talk all the time because of our kids. We even do "family" stuff. He brought supper and we ate together last night before he picked the kids up. I'm just worried about what the OW will do next. Letting go. Shew. So hard. Thanks Sharon. I'm trying. I am going to try to watch War Room again today. I need a battle plan. Right now I am so lost. I just gaze into space watching time tick by.
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Post by Sharon on Apr 2, 2016 11:44:47 GMT -5
I get it completely Annie. My husband cheated with a woman who came and told him a few months later she was pregnant. He asked if it was his and she said no, it was her ex's but I still have fear and doubt about that. Just because she wants that child to be her ex's doesn't mean it is. Chris knows if I ever found out the child was his, I would leave. It's not something I can handle, but God knows that about me too. I believe that child is not Chris's because God knows I would never be able to stay with Chris if he had gotten another woman pregnant while we are together. God will not give you more then you can handle.
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